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The Shy Girl's Guide to becoming a Whore is an online tutorial for women considering becoming an escort by using the technologies of the Internet. The web has changed the nature of prostitution offering women more opportunities than the traditional street walker, escort. or brothel models. We now have the 21st century CyberWhore model, and this is an overview as to how it is done.
In 1997 I first published my Men's Guide to Escort Services, a tutorial for men who were considering hiring an escort and wanted to know how to do it right. The Men's Guide to Escort
Services along with The Nerd's Guide to Sex have become state of the art publications and are read by thousands of people every day. It's so popular in informative that hundreds of
online escorts and escort services link to that page. Many escort sites say, "Read this, then call me". It gives men a deeper understanding as to the nature of women, the nature of the escort business, and how to have a
respectful relationship, develop social skills, and how to be a good lover. Much of my work on this subject comes from my experiences as well as input from women in the business.
But as it turns out, it's not only men who have been reading my escort guide. I have, over the past several years received a lot of e-mail from women who are curious about becoming an escort themselves and wanted to know how to start. I'm getting enough inquires that I decided to try to write a guide for women who are considering the idea so they can at least know the basics as to how it's done, especially in the light of new Internet technologies that are being developed. This is also an informational page to refute common misconceptions about prostitution in general, and distinguish it from the "street walker" model that you see on television.
I understand the irony and political incorrectness of a man writing this guide. Obviously as a male I don't have any personal experience from a woman's perspective. Thus, my views and my information is limited an incomplete. But there are many good web sites on the subject written by women, for women, that can fill in the female perspective that I obviously can not. A very good source of information is The Prostitutes Education Network, written by the Scarlet Harlot who coined the term "Sex Work", which has tons of information. Another web site The Dark Lady gives an in depth personal perspective relating to the experience of being an escort and a fully sexual woman. This page is more about the "nuts and bolts" aspects as to "how to" in light of new 21st century technology.
Prostitutes are women who have a lot of sexual power. |
Prostitutes are powerful women and having men pay you for sex is something that will build your confidence and self esteem. It will also shatter media myths that men only want a specific and rare body style. And sex as a prostitute has a quality that you just can't experience in free sex. And it's a quality that is very erotic for both men and women. The act of giving and receiving money for sex creates a highly charged sexual atmosphere. It is a very deliberate sexual act that eliminate many other extraneous factors that distract one's focus from pure sexuality.
As a prostitute, you are there for a pure sexual experience. It is a deliberate erotic act. It is a way for you to explore your sexual limits as a woman in an environment where you are not only allowed to, but are expected and encouraged to get as nasty as you always wanted to be. Things that you might find awkward or embarrassing to try with lovers, you can do in the sexual role of whore. Whores have a lot of sexual power and it gives a lot of women a sense of personal accomplishment to know that they can do it. Even if they only tried it once. And with the new technologies of the Internet, women can experience it in a much safer manner than ever.
This article is for women who have always been attracted to the idea of having a prostitute sexual experience or considering it for a living, but doesn't know how to get started or to try it out. The idea here is to give you an overview and let you decide what you want to do. I am limited by the fact that I'm male, but I have links to other sites written by women, for women, who can answer the things I know nothing about. Prostitution can be a fun experience if you do it right, and this article focuses on how to do it right.
And --- it's not my goal here to convert women into whores. I get a lot of women inquiring and this is my attempt to share what I know on the subject with those who are asking, and to point you to other resources where you can learn more. If this subject is something you find offensive --- the web is a big place --- go read something else.
What this Site is not about
This web page does not endorse any form of female oppression associated with prostitution in which the women are forced to do anything they don't want to. I too and grieved over the plight of women around the world, especially in third world nations controlled by Islamics and Orthodox Christians, or women forced into prostitution through poverty or drug addiction. What is presented here is very different that that and the two are not to be confused, for they are not even remotely similar.
There are also women who object to the use of the word "Whore" as somehow demeaning to women in a way that "Prostitute" or "Hooker" isn't. I have talked to a number of women who actually do this and many prefer the word "whore". However other find it offensive. My position is that they have exactly the same meaning in this context, and that different readers have different personal tastes. I suggest to those offended that you look at it in the context that it is presented, or, if you just can't handle it, then there are plenty of other good sites on the Internet you'll find more suitable to your moral sensitivities. And if I come across to you as some "cave man" type, then keep in mind that I have a handicap. I'm just the third generation in my family to walk upright.
This web page is about the sexual experience of being a prostitute, not about selling sex for money. |
Almost every woman I've ever known have a secret envy of prostitutes and have wondered what it would feel like sexually to actually be a whore. It is a very erotic concept for women to fantasize over. But in these fantasies, the man is an guy that she is sexually attracted to --- a mysterious stranger --- but someone of her choosing. Traditional prostitution doesn't give women the element of choice, thus there is a separation between the fantasy and reality. But, due to the new technology of the Internet, the element of choice is restored allowing women to actually do it, but with the type of guy who understands this as a form of sexual pleasure for women to experience.
Is it moral? Is it legal? I would argue that this is not significantly different than women who date only rich guys who buy them things. Is it "selling yourself"? I think selling yourself is getting married to a guy who you don't really love so as to be financially secure. This isn't even renting yourself, because you are choosing who you want to be with based on your attraction to him and that you have a sexual experience that you both understand you want. This article is about sexuality and not about income --- and is no different that other sex fantasy instruction sites that teach Bondage, Domination, and other forms of fancy sexual experiences. The information on prostitution here is focused on the female sexual experience element and having that experience in as safe and sexually satisfying way.
Overview of Prostitution Models
Prostitution has taken many forms. People are most familiar with the "Street Walker" model depicted on television, where young drug-addicted women are sex slaves to black pimps with big hats who beat them. Although
there are street walkers, what's depicted on television is hardly a representation of what is happening in the real world. Street walking is one of the bottom end forms of prostitution and probably the most dangerous.
Not only are you exposed to dangerous people trying to pick you up, but also to police harassment. Or, in many cases, the police have a hard time protecting the safety of street walkers. There are many cops who are
concerned about the safety of these women and have to try to keep them from being hurt.
There's also the traditional "Brothel" or "Whore House" model where a number of women work together in a large house and private rooms. In this model there are other employees who greet the customers and provide more security. This model is generally more upscale than the street walking model, but also has the downside that law enforcement knows where you are and will tend to arrest you, especially during an election year.
Then there's the "escort" model. Escorts are generally women who come to your home or motel room to meet you. many escorts work for an escort agency who advertises on the Yellow Pages or the newspaper and takes calls. Then women who are on call are paged and given an address to go to. Often the agency provides a driver who will pick up the escort and drive her to the customers location, and pick her up later when she's done. Unlike the brothel model, escorts have a higher risk factor in that you are out there alone. Generally escorts are expected to call in just after getting the money to indicate everything is all right and have code words if they are in danger. It's more upscale than street walking and much safer.
Many escorts are self employed. Many have Web Sites advertising their services and cater to the out-of-town business man who is looking for some fun while on business. This works best if you live in a big city. Many self employed escorts have just picked up a few good customers over the years and don't advertise for more. They have maybe four guys they see on a regular basis, and that's it. Many of these relationships last 20 years or more.
The 21st Century CyberWhore
New technology has created a new model of prostitution. The Internet has changed the way the world works. We now have new forms of sex and new ways of meeting people who never existed before. The Internet is a tool that empowers the individual to express themselves and to communicate in ways never before possible. The very fact that you are reading this now is an example of this. If not for the Internet, where could you find an instruction manual on how to meet guys for profitable sex? As the Internet empowers me to write this, and you to read this, it also empowers you to meet guys in ways never before possible.
The "cyberwhore" model is much like the escort model, with some exceptions. If you work for an escort service, then you are sent out on jobs to meet strange men who you know nothing about. You have to trust that the escort agency has properly screened them for you. In the cyberwhore model, you get to exchange e-mail, chat online, voice chat, exchange pictures, and get to know perspective clients first. You don't have to do some stranger who walks in the door. You get to select who you want to be with. That makes all the difference in the world.
New technology has created a new form of prostitution that is very different that traditional forms of prostitution. |
Once you get responses, you can then get to know these people. You can exchange e-mail with them. As them for pictures, their web site, what they do for a living, if they are married or single, have kids, who they voted for, and if they eat at McDonald's and recycle their trash. You can be as picky as you want to be and only do guys who appeal to you. In addition to e-mail, there's live chat using software like Yahoo Instant Messenger where you can interact with the person out use it for voice communication. Eventually this leads to making a date to get together.
An important aspect of this way of meeting men is that you remain anonymous until you decide to reveal yourself. You generally create a user account with a "handle" (to use an old CB radio term) that you go by. No one know who you really are and you can keep it that way. This allows you to have exchanges with someone without them being able to communicate with you in ways that you don't control. It gives you the freedom to include or exclude whomever you want.
I contend that meeting a person on the web for a paid relationship is as safe as meeting someone on the web for a free relationship, can certainly safer than picking up a stranger in a bar. There also is no costs involved in getting started. Many personal ad services are free, and even the paid matching services are not very expensive, and will often let you post an ad for free. This new technology open up a world to women who have always fantasized about becoming a whore, but haven't worked up the nerve to actually try it.
There are many places to post personal ads. There are both free sites and pay sites. But even the pay sites are free to you. most pay sites let you post your ad for free, but charge you if you're responding to other people's ads. since the idea is to get responses, you pay nothing. The pay sites have the advantage that the men who are responding to you are paying for the service. So you're already dealing with guys who are spending money in search of sexual opportunity.
A short list of sites include:
You can, of course, place ads in any or all of these places. You will be surprised with the number of responses you get so you might not want to do too many all at once. If you did all of the above you would have plenty of responses to deal with. Often too many.
Signing Up
It's important to remain anonymous when signing up for these services. Never give out personal information about yourself as part of your online profile. Some services allow you to create several profiles. I would make two on Yahoo, one more about you with an e-mail account, and another one without that you will use as your whore identity. In any case, the idea is that you control the information about you that the world will see.
In signing up you pick a user name to go by. It's better to not use something to explicit for several reasons. A name like "IllSuckYouDry" is not good. Must people using those kind of names are trying to get men to join online porn sites. I name like "RedHeadLovesRoses" is more discreet. And discreet is good. you're looking for quality, not quantity of responses.
The information you want to reveal is:
Picking the right picture is important and it should be similar to pictures of other women on the service. You don't have to have a picture showing your cervix to get the point across. The right smile can communicate that. Nudity is not required and might attract more weirdos and less upscale men who have money to spend. But that depends on the service. If you post to and adult service where everyone had nude pics then you want to be as naked as everyone else is.
Creating the Ad
The most important thing is your message. You need to get the point across without being real explicit about it. You don't want to attract the attention of the law, or even something that would cause your ad to get pulled. You can't post an ad that says, "I'll fuck anyone for $150". That's a bad ad. Here's an example of and ad with some words and phrases that are more subtle:
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This ad is very subtle and targeted at smart men. There are less subtle things you can ad if you feel like you want to be more specific about what you want financially. Words like "sugar daddy" or "girl friend experience" (a GFE) are more specific. But then it might be two specific, and it depends on where you post your ad. An ad of Yahoo would be very different than and ad on Adult Friendfinder.
Likewise, the picture with the ad can be subtle too. Many guys want a "girl next door" look rather than a more sexual image. In fact, the combination of your message and your picture send a message about the kind of experience you want to have. An important point to remember is that this is about you and your sexuality too. Being a cyberwhore isn't about money and selling yourself to someone. It's about empowering yourself to have sexual experiences in the role of a whore. And that role can be, and should be, a very erotic experience for you as well as your partner.
This isn't just about what he want's sexually. It's also about what you want sexually. |
You might place an ad such as this on Adult Friendfinder:
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The best way for you to learn how to write and ad if for you to look at other ads. You can search Adult Friendfinder to see examples in a more sexually explicit context. Reading these ads should help you craft your message.
If you already have a regular personal ad on the Internet, you might already be receiving offers from men to give you money to have sex with you without you ever having intended to market yourself that way. I get e-mail from women who tell me, "Some guy saw my ad and offered me $400 to have sex with him. And he's not bad looking and turns me on. What do I do?" In a case like that, all you have to do is say, "OK Deal!"
Processing the Responses
You'll get a lot of responses. You can look at it as an IQ test and just drop all the ones that don't get it. Remember, like the Marines, you're just looking for a few good men. Once you find men who get the idea, then you need to figure which ones your sexually attracted to. You want to pick men who turn you on and that you would enjoy having sex with. This is done with e-mail or Yahoo personal messages, or Yahoo instant messenger. You can get to know each other better that way and figure out if you like each other.
Exchanging pictures is a good start. You can send him some tame, yet sexy pictures. He can send you pics of him. If you like what you see then you can talk about what gets you hot, and things you like to do. And all this communication is done from your extra e-mail addresses and your Yahoo aliases. He will never know who you are unless you reveal it to him. And it's something he doesn't need to know. You don't want these guys calling you at home or working thinking you are their girlfriend. You want to stay anonymous, strangers in the night, as the song goes.
There's more to be written on this subject. But, as I said in the beginning, as a male my knowledge is limited and I only write about things I know.
The goal however, is to be very choosy. Especially on your first time. In addition to getting a fee, you are looking to:
You want a man who understands the "rules" about how this is done. How do you do that? We'll one way is you have him read my Men's Guide to Escort Services - something that I do know a great deal about - letting him know that this is required reading. You can even quiz him on it to make sure he read it. Additionally, you can require him to read my Nerd's Guide to Sex which is an instructional guide for men on how to do it right. If a guy reads these two web pages, he has all the information he needs to be ready to show you a good time. Remember, this is about your sexual needs too and there are plenty of guys out there who are good lovers who are willing to pay you for sex. The difference between good lovers and bad lovers is knowledge. And if they don't have the knowledge, my guides will educate them.
It is also important to learn how to say "No" to someone who's being a creep. Many women are too easily pressured into things because they haven't learned the art of being a bitch. If at any point you feel like something isn't right, cut it off. You just stop replying to e-mail messages. If you are using Instant Messenger, use the Ignore feature to keep them from contacting you.
Learning to say NO!
Many women I know have never learned the art of saying No. If a guy gets pushy and demanding and pressures you into doing things, tell him to stick it! You don't have to do anything you don't want to, and you can say no at any time. If there's anything that makes you feel funny or uncomfortable, just back away. There are plenty of nice guys out there that are willing to pay you to give you sexual pleasure. So, if you're dealing with a creep, blow him off!.
No is the most important word for a woman to know. If you have problems asserting yourself, this is where you can learn to do that. And if you can't do it then this isn't the right thing for you to be doing. Even though guys are paying you, you are in control. You do not have to do anything you don't want to do. The idea is to form a relationship that is based on common interests.
Using Technology to Become Intimate
After exchanging e-mail and finding someone that you're attracted to, you can use computer technology to become intimate. I'm a fan of Yahoo Instant Messenger, but there are several other chat programs out there including AOL Messenger, MSN Messenger, and IRC. Instant Messenger lets you make long distance phone calls to anywhere in America for free as well. And, if you're talking computer to computer, you can talk anywhere in the world.
Chatting give you instant interaction. Both of you are anonymous and because you don't know who each other are, you are both more free to say anything you want. You are merely a stream of text. You don't have to worry about your looks, your weight, your voice, anything. If you are a shy girl, chatting is a good way to become un-shy. And you can explore things and reveal sexual secrets about yourself because the person on the other end has not idea who you are.
Many years ago, back in the mid 1970s (revealing my age here) I used to hitchhike around the country quite a bit and I'd get picked up by a variety of people. I am a person who is very easy to talk to, but people would tell me things that they wouldn't tell anyone else in the world. And there was really only one reason they would tell me -- because I was someone who they were never going to see again. I was a totally anonymous person who was just passing through and whatever I knew about them didn't matter.
Chatting online has a similar aspect to it. You can chat with men you will reveal their most intimate secrets, and you can find men who you can reveal your most intimate secrets to, because you have no idea who they are, and they don't know who you are. You can tell a lot about a man by what is sexual fantasies are. Does his fantasies arouse you, or turn you off? Obviously, you want to pick guys who arouse you.
CyberSex - PhoneSex - Learning to have Sex with Strangers
You may have hear of cyber sex and phone sex and thought that it's something weird. On the surface, it might seem so. But in real life it's a lot better than most people imagine. And it reveals an aspects of sexuality that many people don't understand --- that sex is more mental than physical. It's what's happening in the brain that makes the sex good. And you can create sex in the brain by chatting or voice contact and it is a lot better than what people who haven't tried it would think.
I remember the first time it happened to me, when I was a cyber virgin. I had posted a personal ad on Yahoo, and a woman who lives 250 miles away responded. We exchanged a few emails that got a little hot, and she suggested that we could meet, rent a movie of some sort, and get to know each other. I picked up on that scenario and wrote back a very detailed sex fantasy of what would happen if I showed up. Her response was, "if you left now you could be here in 5 hours, let's skip the movie."
After that we got into some hot chat using AOL Messenger, telling each other what we would do if we met. It was very erotic. I was hard, she was wet, and I suggested we talk on the phone. She gave me her number, I called her, and we listened to each other come. And it was fun. A lot more fun than doing it yourself. I was surprised as to how good it was.
You can really get to know someone by what their sexual fantasies are. |
If you've never had (good) sex with total strangers before, and you want to try prostitution, cyber sex and voice sex are a good way to practice. You can become sexually intimate with a total stranger without any physical contact, and without revealing your identity. And looks don't matter because you're not seeing the other person anyway, and they will probably be better looking in your imagination than they really are. So why ruin it with pictures?
What's amazing about sex is that you can bring a person to orgasm merely by typing at them. I think it's rather amusing getting women to come with no more than a text stream. And, men are just as easy.
Cyber Sex and Phone Sex are a great way to get used to having sex with strangers. |
Finding cyber sex is really easy. Go to Yahoo Personals and bring up some ads. In the upper left you will see a link called "Instant Personals". With instant personals, you leave a short message on a topic. You have about 200 characters or about 3 sentences. If you leave a message, it can be as simple as "Hey Boyz" and you will get a LOT of responses instantly. But --- a better way is for you to look through the men's messages and find a guy who leaves a message that turns you on. You have to have your Yahoo Messenger software running to make this work. But you just click on his message, type a response, and start talking.
The idea is to do this when you're feeling sexy. Find a message that excites you and reply. Let the conversation flow. Become verbally intimate and let yourself go. Allow yourself to explore your online sexuality. It's totally anonymous so you can say anything and it doesn't matter. In many cases it will display the city and state where they are. If you pick someone far away, then you can be reasonable sure they won't ever come around even if you do reveal yourself. But this is for practice sex, and an education about men in general. And men online will tell you things about themselves that none of your male friends ever will, because you are someone they will never see.
If this is your first experience as a prostitute, having cyber sex with someone before your first time is a much smoother transition that just showing up to meet a total stranger. In my experience, when I've met women
in person after having had phone sex and cyber sex, it's not nearly as awkward the first time. In fact, it doesn't really seem like the first time because, in reality, we've already fucked on the phone. So doing it in
person isn't the big of a step. And, it lets you get to know the person. You can hear what he sounds like when he's fucking, and you can decide if you like him. If he get's you off on the phone then it's likely he'll
get you off in person too.
What to Expect Sexually
I will start this subject with some biological sexual theory in order to make an important point. There's a more detailed discussion of this in my Nerd's Guide to Sex. But briefly -- we are the decedents of 3 billion years of fucking. The primary purpose of fucking is to create babies. We are descended from those who had sex that led to pregnancy. Under the evolutionary theory that those who reproduce best win, (variation of survival of the fittest) sex has evolved based on reproductive principles. The reason sex feels so good is that it compels us to reproduce. And we are descended for those with the least control over these urges.
A woman who has an orgasm is three times more likely to get pregnant than a woman who doesn't. (I read that somewhere - but I have also seen video of a woman's cervix dipping down into the sperm pool during orgasm - Discovery Channel) Because orgasms increase a woman's chance to get pregnant, men have evolved an instinctive desire to need to get women to come. A man's biological instincts is to jack women off while he's jacking himself off -- which is also necessary for reproduction to occur. Likewise, women crave to feel the sensation of a man coming inside her, and that often triggers her to come.
Men have a biological need to give women sexual pleasure. |
Now, since the male orgasm is more directly involved in reproduction than the female orgasm, there are a lot of men out there who haven't developed their instincts to pleasure women. But, there are a lot of men who have. I personally grave the experience of feeling a woman body orgasms, or even hearing her come on the phone. And many men feel the same way. And this applies as much if not more to sex with prostitutes.
Many women, including prostitutes, think prostitution is about pleasuring him, which it is -- but -- it's also about pleasuring you. He gets pleasure by pleasuring you. He is giving you money for the opportunity to try to give your a pleasurable sexual experience. He's competing to try to give your more sexual pleasure than every other guy you've fucked. Think about it --- a guy paying you to give you sexual pleasure. Swear to god it's true! And - it's important that you understand that. Because that understanding sets the tone of the sexual encounter.
So - you may be thinking -- "Yea right Marc! Not the guys I've been fucking. These guys just stick it in and get themselves off and they're done! Where do you find these guys you want to get you off?" You find them from the responses to your personal ad. You will have many responses from men telling you what they want to do to pleasure you. When you engage them in conversation, through e-mail or chat, you can tell the difference between the ones who understand your pleasure, and the ones who don't. So the trick to finding guys who will pay you to give you good sex is to be selective when they respond to your ad. You respond to the guys who get it. And the ones that don't, send them to read my guides and try again later.
When reading the responses, let your body help you select. If his words make you wet, and he understands that it's not free, respond to him. If his words turn you off, hit the delete key. What makes this different than traditional prostitution is that you get to pick who you want to be with, and they get to compete for the opportunity to try to get them to allow you to take their money for the chance to give you sexual pleasure. Once you understand this, you'll have a new way of thinking about what this is all about.
Prostitution creates a kind of sexual experience that is difficult to match in any other context. Not saying it's better or worse, but different. Like a new flavor of ice cream. Just like sex with a husband is different than sex with a boyfriend or a stranger, this experience has a unique dynamic. And it's something that a lot of women really enjoy.
Men are actually paying you money for the opportunity to attempt to give you sexual pleasure. |
In a prostitution setting, you are setting up a sexual encounter that is planned and deliberate. The purpose of the encounter is for mutual sexual pleasure. You are allowing yourself to be fucked by a man you is paying you money for an attempt to give you sexual pleasure. You can open yourself up and allow yourself to feel his desires. If you've exchanged e-mail and chatted online, then you might have already exchanged fantasies as to what it will be like. He's told you want turns him on, and you've told him what turns you on, and you are both hot for each other. (This is assuming that you did this --- see above)
There is a sexual experience that I enjoy where two people merge into a single being where you both let go and become one sex act --- where the sex takes over and you are both along for the ride. A moment of pure male/female instinct. It happens when all other factors go away and all that's left is pure fucking. And I've shared this experience more often in a prostitution setting in a prostitution setting than anything else. To that end, the giving and taking of money is part of the sexual ritual to achieve this flavor of experience.
The point here is, prostitution isn't just a way to make money, but is also a way to have fun. Many women do this on a recreational basis, not because of the money, but to have a prostitute sexual experience. When a man is paying you money for sex, he is telling you that you are so desirable that he will pay you for the chance to pleasure you. And if you're in your mid 40s -- 40 pounds to heavy --- and feeling like men don't want you anymore, when a guy pays you to pleasure you, it makes you feel like a sexy woman again. And, in the context of prostitution, it gives you permission to be as nasty as you want to be. You can really let go and try things that you'd bet to embarrassed to do with someone you knew.
Many Escorts say, "I can't believe I actually get paid to do this!" |
How Much do I Charge?
A lawyer one told me that if someone wants to sell a chair for $4000 and someone buys it for $4000 then the chair is worth $4000. The same principle is try for prostitution. There is no going rate. It's not something you can look up in the Blue Book. It's worth whatever you agree to. Much of this depends on your ability to negotiate and to be selective as to who you negotiate with.
Much of it to has to do with the type of service requested. Many men want to hire women for things other than sex. In many ways a whore is a social worker, a friend, a confidant, someone to listen to you, to be with you, to spend time together, to learn about women, to build confidence with women, or to just not be alone. So price is basically whatever you agree to.
One thing to avoid though is not to negotiate for money first. You're first contact by email or chat should be about getting to know the other person and not your price list. This is important to avoid a misunderstanding with law enforcement who might mistakenly think that you are in violation of something. Law enforcement is looking for women who agree to have "sex for money" and will pass you by if it looks like they are going to have to spend time getting to know you first. It also acts as a creep filter because you are only offering sex for money to selected men who turn you on sexually. So until they meet your specs as to who you might do it with, they don't get the price list.
So, what are the price ranges? Well, on the low end, Jimmy Swaggart was only paying $15 to the hooker he got caught with. To me the price was more shocking than the act itself. On the high end I know women who have got $10,000 for a single trick. But I wouldn't hold my breath waiting for that to happen. A lot depends of your area. Different areas have different standards of living. Generally, as a rule of thumb, a whore makes the same rate per hour as a lawyers does. So if you're in Springfield Missouri, lawyers get $100/hour. If you're in San Francisco, lawyers get $250/hour.
But these are just general prices. Most of the pricing has to do with you and who you attract. If someone wants to buy you a plane ticket and spend a weekend with you in Vegas, think thousands of dollars. Sometimes you can let them make you and offer. You might find they want to give you more money than you would have asked for.
Generally if you're a Barbie you can get more than if you're not. but that's not a hard rule. I have know women who are fairly ordinary looking who get over $1000, and Barbies who are doing it for $50. What makes the difference is your skills involving money negotiations. And that's a separate skill, one you should develop in any line of work.
It reminds me of friends who are computer programmers who whore their brains out by the hour. Many of them just were intimidated by the idea of negotiating the money part. It's an acquired skill and it just takes courage and practice. It's a useful job skill and if you learn it, you can use it in the business world.
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