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Marc, I really enjoyed reading your web pages! Especially "How to Use Escort Services A Men's Guide". You are right on target!
After some extended time of celabacy (it's own punishment) and since I found myself without a sex partner, I turned to the ladies in the "oldest profession" to satisfy myself. I wish I'd have read your pages first! But I can verify your observations from my own trial and error.
Your very insightfull comments on our need to fuck... our very nature to fuck... has helped me put a few things into perspective. I've been using the services of several independents (my preference because of the lower cost) for the last 4 months. After the initial "newness" of my activities wore off, I found myself stressing over the morality issues and feeling a bit hollow about my experiences. I can't say that this is all cleared now, but your point of view took some of the pressure off of me.
I would like to suggest a few things you might like to address. As you stated, it's good to become a "regular" with more than one professional. At the same time, I prefer not to use the services of too many women. There's that feeling of "re-inventing the wheel" with a new women. Although a new experience from time to time is exciting, I agree with you that getting to know the women has it's rewards. But I've encountered a pitfall... maybe because of my niavety... but I've found myself falling in love with a very special professional. By far the most attentive, most tender lover I've ever encountered. And I am a sucker for tender love making! And beyond this, a great conversationalist, insightful, ... I could go on... Like you said, it's normal to become friends, but I like this person's company. How does one deal with these natural feelings... Is this akin to falling in love with one's therapist? (As a matter of fact, I consider much of the time I spend with these working girls as therapy!)
I've enjoyed some "friendly" time with her too. Afternoons at the mall, sharing music CDs, talking about authors and movies... without a fee. She seems to be keeping everything clear... the boundaries are in tact... "Friendly" time and the "business" time are not blurred for her, but as for myself... well, I find myself saddened at times, saying goodbye after a "session" knowing that she'll probably have 20 or so others before I see her again. (I've seen ads on the internet offering counseling... saying "Do you fall in love with Sex Workers?")
I've searched through the PENet and COYOTE sites for information about this phenomena but have found none. This is something I wish You would address.
There is so many other issues I could bring up. But for now, I'm bookmarking your site. And I hope to see more insights into this fascinating relationship we find ourselves in with these professionals.
Joe
Falling in love with women is natural and it's easy to fall in love with sex workers. I've fallen for a few myself. Just remember to be smart about it. Just because you love someone doesn't mean you have to marry them. Keep it simple and both of you will enjoy yourselves. When the sex is that good you can't help but to feel some love.
Marc
Yours Sincerely, April.
Aurevoir.
and on acid and scared and in bed with a girl who probably likes me and then she is toucing me and then we are having sex and its good but something is missing and then later smoking a joint on my balcony and officially im not a virgin anymore
and then two days later and she is comming over to see me and i stumble onto your sex guide and then later
she is on top of me and im doing what you said to do (nothing) and she is moaning and she is comming for a long time and then she whispers into my ear (before she starts to suck it) "your amazing.. a-a-a-mazing" and then she is comming some more
and afterwards she tells me im the best sex she has ever had...
i wanted to thank you dude...rock n roll...
I followed your plan as closely as possible. I had my lubricant, condoms, warm wet towel, etc. More importantly, I had the information I needed to be confident in my undertaking. One thing I didn't do was to call around until I found the girl I wanted. One service had a girl matching my description but she was unavailable, so I compromised. The girl came by and everything worked out just as you described, except she couldn't get me off. After she left, I went back to the Guide to remind myself of where I went wrong. I also reflected on your suggestion to try another if the first doesn't succeed.
I called the same service a few days later and made an appointment with the girl I wanted to see originally. Sure enough, when I opened my hotel room door my every fantasy was there waiting for me. We had one of the most excitingly wonderful and memorable hours of my life!!! She is a very intelligent girl which is a real plus in my book. This allowed us to speak frankly and openly about a number of things which added to the experience.
I owe this all to you. Without your words of wisdom I know I would have never called that fateful day. Your Guide does a service to guys like me that goes beyond measure. You are the MAN!!! It is with my deepest gratitude and greatest of thanks that I pass these words on to you.
I just wanted to thank you for your Guide to Escort Services. I had my first escort experience an hour ago! And what an experience it was! I had a good time! I would have never even considered using an escort service before I read your web page. You gave me the rationale, information and confidence to give it a try. While I was definitely nervous, your information was right on, and that helped me tremendously. I feel that I have that option open to me now anytime I want, what a great feeling that is. I have no reason to feel desperate anymore. Now I'll have the extra confidence I need to get the women I really want for real relationships.
