Sexual Training

This book contains material of an adult sexual nature.

First you need a Woman

Practice makes perfect and you can read about it and you won't really know it. You have to try it out. And to do that you need a sex partner. If you're married or have a girlfriend who is willing you're ready to start practicing. All you have to do is tell her you want to become a better lover and ask her to help you learn. Find a bed and get to work.

If however you don't have a lover you might be even better off. You can rent one. The phone book is full of Escort Services. Escorts are sex workers that come to your house and you pay them by the hour. They are professional sex workers and have a lot of sexual experiance. For details about how to call for an Escort, read my Men's Guide to Escort Services. It has a step by step guide to getting a woman to practice with sexually.

Even if you have a lover you might still want to practice with a sex worker. With a sex worker you can focus on the sex without the distractions of the relationship. Because the sex worker is a stranger, you might feel more confortable discussing your needs and issues that you can't tell someone who knows you. Sex Workers are very nice women and generally are turned on by the idea of teaching sex to men. And who would know it better than someone who does it for a living?

The first thing you'll notice with either a sex worker or your lover that the idea of teaching and learning about sex is in itself a very sexy situation. The hottest sex is deliberate sex. You are telling her that you want to give her orgasms. She is telling you that she wants you to make her come. Deliberate sex, with the intent to have orgasms, is a very good mental state to start from. As you will learn, sex is a very mental thing. And to agree up front to have orgasms almost in itself gaurentees that it will happen.

Woman on Top

As I stated earlier, it's not so much what you do right, but what you don't do wrong. Therefore, if you do almost nothing, believe it or not, you will probably be a better lover. Plus you will be in a position to watch and learn.

The first thing to try is with the woman on top. You lay on your back with a pillow under your butt to raise your pelvis up higher. This is what I call "Wild West". She's the cowgirl, you're the saddle. She gets on top of you. What you agree to do is that she fucks you until she comes. All you do is lay there, stay hard, don't come yourself, and just smile and watch. You can play with her tits or grab her hips or ass. Try to ficure out what she likes best. What you are doing, by agreement, is that she's going to jack off on top of you, and you're going to watch her do it.

What's very important here is that she is in control. You are there to watch and learn. You can move your pelvis a little but she's fucking you, not the other way around. What you need to do is keep the angle right. Let her move in ways that she wants. Watch her and learn. She's showing you what she likes. You're learning how women's bodies work. She's opening up to you sexually and she'll allow herself to do things that she might have otherwise been too embarrased to do.

When you get done she'll think you're an incredible lover. She'll want to know, "Where did you learn how to do THAT!" And you'll be there wondering, "Do that?" All I did was lay there and watch. And suddenly you'll realize that sex is very different that what you thought it was and it's real easy to get women to come. That all you have to do is let them do what they already want to do. "Can it be that easy?", you might ask. Yes it can! And when you impress your lady, or impress your sex worker, you'll change your life and see sex in a very different way. Just doing this will put you in the top 10% of all lovers.

Mutual Masturbation

This is always educational once you get up the nerve to do it. It's a big step forward in a relationship for people who aren't used to doing this. You have to get over the embarrassment of jacking off in front of someone else. And you have to make her confortable enough so she can jack off in front of you.

Mutual masturbation accomplishes two things. The first and most obvious is that it allows each person to show the other what they each like. That way you understand the other person's physical needs. Everyone is different and it allows you to learn about that specific person.

The other thing that it does is to open up sexual trust. One of the limiting factors, particularly for women, is that their sexual potential is limited only by the mental factors that keep them from fully expressing themselves sexually. The more mental factors are removed the hotter they are. This allows the inner porn star to come out and lets them express who they really are sexually. Mutual masterbation is a big step forward in removing these mental barriers for both partners.

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