This book contains material of an adult sexual nature. |
A woman's hottest sex organ is her mind. It's not all in the mind of course. You have to get the body stuff right. But once you have the physical stuff understood it's time to move on to the brain. Because the brain is where the sexual thoughts and fanticies begin.
Whole books have been written on this and I'm not in a position to cover everything here. There are millions of things that get women hot. But one thing in particular I want to mention is the women are really turned on by a mans sexual confidence.
As you get to be a better lover you'll notice more women telling you that your the best fuck they even had in their life. You'll start to feel good about yourself and you'll become confident. You get to the point that you KNOW you can make almost any woman come and women can sense that. You know they are going to come, they know they are going to come, so the come. Women can sense your sexual confidence and it makes them really hot.
Confidence comes with success and success comes with confidence. As you use the techniques in this book you should see results. As you see results you should become more confident. As you become more confident you should see more results.
Women are turned on by who you are personally more that what you look like. That means that if you're an ordinary middle aged geek like me you still have a chance. Women like men who have an inner strength. Men who understand women and are comfortable around women. As you learn more about women you will develop that personality trait that women respond to. And when your fucking them and they can feel you confidence, well, restance is futile!
Sexual Trust
In order for a woman to come she has to trust you sexually. Women in general are very timid sexually. They were raised to believe that women who come are sluts, bad girls if you will. And men are raised to be judgemental of women who are too openly sexual. If a woman doesn't trust you sexually, she won't be able to open up to you the way she might like to.
We humans are strange creatures. As we evolved and as our minds developed we started to become aware of the act of doing sex. Humans are the only creature on the planet which has the ability to decide not to reproduce. And this ability to decide to not reproduce only applies to a small percentage of the population. In reality, for the vast majority of people, sex really isn't optional. You have to do it, and you really don't have the choice not to. And that applies to both men and women. You have to have it, she has to have it. I don't see why people don't just accept that and realize that sex is something people need to do together and just do it.
But sex has become in the eyes of society as something that's immoral. Logically, if sex is immoral then life itself is immoral. However, I'm a nerd so what makes sense to me probably isn't going to change anyone's mind. I think the problem is that humans are to self important. We like to think of ourselves as bing above the average beast. However, when we fuck we become one with the beasts. Just listen to the noises we make. I'm grunting, she's screaming, or faces look like we're in pain, we're naked, it's very undignified. Not the kind of think we want society to picture us doing. We are humans after all, not creatures!
Well, not me. I'm just another male beast. I'm only the third generation in my family to walk upright. I am your typical male. I'm just one of 3 billion men on this planet who wants to get laid. I'm not what some might call, "highly evolved". We humans are just a chemical pattern that exists on a speck of dust in the universe and exists for but an instant in time. We just aren't that important.
Therefore, it's OK to fuck and enjoy it. And it's important to realize that it's OK and to make your partner feel like it's OK. Women have to understand that it's OK for a man to just want to fuck. And men have to understand that women want it too and they need to be able to trust you, and if they open up to you sexually that you won't turn weird on them and make them regret it.
What makes the great lovers great isn't that they do great things, but that they don't do things wrong that detract from the sex. Women want to be porn stars and all you have to do is let them do it. But that's easier said than done. But if you can adjust yourself mentally to allow a woman to enjoy herself the way she already wants to, she'll think your the worlds greatest lover. And all you really did was to create the environment that permits her to express herself sexually. You're not really doing anything but letting her be free and that makes you the best lover she ever had in her life. Can it really be that easy? Yes, it can, and it is.
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