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I am a person who believes in reality. My religion is reality as it really is. I am a nerd and a scientist and a student of the true nature of things. I endeavor to understand the way things are, and not the way I would like them to be. What I say here represents my understanding of reality. But I believe that the best way to deal with things is to look at reality for what it is and not what we would like it to be.
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About the Author
I am a middle-aged nerd who is average looking and a little overweight. There is nothing special about me physically. I'm just another guy like you are. I've always loved to figure things out and understand how they work and women and sex are interesting to me. I do have two unusual talents. I'm very good at understanding things, and I'm very good at explaining things. I've done a lot of investigating and I'm now prepared to share what I've learned.
I started having sex that the age of 18. At the age of 19 I moved to Missouri and was part of the "back to the land" movement. These were hippies who, after the Vietnam War, decided to drop out of society and start communes and live off the land. Most of these people were older than I was, ranging in age from 25 to 45. Hippies didn't have the same sexual inhibitions as most people and most of the women were at the age where women are at their sexual peak. I was like a kid in a candy store.
Being with older women, especially hippie women who had had many lovers, taught me a lot and I had a great time for many years. Eventually though I left the woods and rejoined the "civilized" world. Being into technology and tired of fixing CB radios for a living, I decided to learn computers and eventually opened a computer retail store.
At the time I started in the retail business I didn't have a lover. I hadn't gotten laid in a long time and it was bothering me. I had a lot of money but not a lot of time and it occurred to me that with a little cash I could solve this problem. So I went to the local whorehouse and took care of the problem.
All I expected was a fairly impersonal fuck, and that would be better than not getting any. What I got was great. I met this woman who went by the name of "Honey". She had that special kind of grin than let me know that she was someone who enjoyed her work. She asked me my name and I said, "If you're Honey, you can call me Sweet Tooth." It was great. This woman knew her job and then some. I quickly became a "regular" and saw her a couple times a week.
Although the hippie women were good, Honey was a pro. This is what she did for a living and besides making good money, she loved the work. And for the next 2 years I got a hell of an education about women and sex. I became Honey's favorite customer. The other girls used to tease her about it. They'd make up stories that I'd come in on days when she was off and did them. She'd get jealous and pissed off about it.
One day Honey quit her job and disappeared. I started trying out the others who worked there and ended up seeing a woman who went by the name of "Connie". I got to be her favorite customer as well. Then after about 6 months Honey came back and I alternated between the two. Then Connie moved off to Biloxi, Mississippi, and it was back to me and Honey again.
Around 1986 I got together with the love of my life, or so I thought at the time. Vicki and I moved in together. She moved up from Texas and we eventually got married. Having a permanent relationship, I had to break it off with the hookers. It was sad breaking the news to Honey, but I had always wanted to be married and had my chance to try it out.
Being married was interesting. I made the mistake of mentioning the names of some of my ex-lovers who were now friends. Vicki was the very jealous type and went out of her way to sabotage any previous relationship I had. Although Vicki had a hippie background, she was only peripheral to the hippie culture. Only a part-time hippie rather than really living it the way I did.
Like most hippie women though, she had a long sexual history. I was her third husband and she had been with about 25 other guys before me as well as a miscellaneous woman or two. Most women who have had a lot of lovers have tried another woman once or twice. I don't even consider a woman to be bisexual unless they have more than 20% women lovers. To me Vicki's sexual experience was a plus because I like women who knew what they were doing. And for a "civilian" Vicki was pretty good.
For 8 years I played the loyal monogamous husband role until one day she decided that I wasn't "enlightened" enough for her anymore and she wanted to move on. We're now involved in a Long Nasty Divorce. After we broke up and she moved out, I went back to the hookers.
This time though, instead of going to the whorehouses, I discovered something new -- escort services. They come to your house and you get to do it in your own living space where it's more comfortable. This time instead of seeing one or two women I decided to try out a variety and see lots of different women. Divorce is tough, but it's not nearly as tough when you're getting laid and these women were just what the doctor ordered!
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After every session where I could tell the woman I was with had just had a great time I started asking what it was that made it so good. What was it I was doing that was different than other men? It seemed that sex was pretty easy and I couldn't believe that I was that great. As it turns out, it's not that I was that great. What I found out was how little the average guy knew. I found out that most guys know almost nothing about how to please women and are totally ignorant of the basics. Basics I thought everyone had to know. Eventually it became apparent that I should write a book.
Women have assisted me
I've mentioned this book project to many of these women and they love the idea. In addition to what I've learned on my own, I got a lot of good pointers from these women who want to contribute ideas to the book. So what you read here isn't coming from just me. I've had some help from a lot of women whom I consider to be leaders in the field. Who would know more about what men don't know than women in the business of having sex with hundreds, or even thousands of men?
What I found was that men don't know the basics. What it takes to be a good lover isn't very hard to learn and I believe it can be taught. So, you too can be great in the sack and I'm going to teach you how to do it.
Besides not understanding the basics, I found that most men make a lot of mistakes that turn women off and the biggest area of improvement isn't in learning what to do right as much as eliminating what most men do wrong. Most guys can be a better lover by just doing nothing than doing what they are used to. When a woman has sex with you she wants to come. She is capable of making herself come and all you have to do is not mess it up. And I'll show you a step-by-step approach to learning how to do it right.
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Web based publication
Unlike a normal paper book this book is a web-based product. It is not limited to having to be done and committed to print. I can add to it and correct it at any time. I am also connecting a web based discussion system to the book so that people who read it can interact with each other and with me and discuss ideas on how to make sex better. As new ideas are presented I will, from time to time, add to the book and make it more interesting and accurate. If you have learned something that the rest of us should know, feel free to share it.
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Using this Book
In order to explain sex I'm going to start with an overview of reality beginning with the creation of the universe. I will then go over the history of sex, defining what it is, and then go on to talking about what men and women really want sexually. I want to lay the groundwork of a basic understanding of sex from a pure reality point of view. This groundwork in necessary in order for you to understand what you are doing and make it easier for you to practice the learning exercises and get the experience you need to learn how to do it right. This book includes hands-on experience and if you don't have a practice partner I have information on where you can Rent One.
Once you understand the basics you can move on to the more advanced stuff with a clear understanding of what you are doing and why it works. Ultimately you will learn that a person’s most powerful sex organ is the mind and I will teach you the mental disciplines that will drive women wild. To me there's nothing more fun than a woman who's screaming with pleasure or lying next to you afterwards with a big grin and vibrating with pleasure. If you haven't experienced this you need to try it out.
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